Creating CO2 : Being Alive

RE: Don't lose that 90% you already have

Anyway just to rebuke la. Its human nature to wana upgrade, change etc…
this article is a very one sided thing.

Think of it this way u got a partner, whom maybe 70% of wat u wan. Who knows few years down u see another partner whom is like 80% n ur 70% kena deteriorate to 50% how ?!?!? Don’t forget along the way it doesn’t mean a RS would grow ok, it would most prob deteriorate la… else ppl wont wana break off liao! hahaha

Can upgrade from 4rm to 5rm when pay equal cost/installments who don’t wana upgrade?
Just an example, u own n could only afford a suzuki swift. Here comes along someone who has a WRX la n tt someone can loan it to u la.
Would u not wana ride/drive it?
(Provided don’t have strings attached la)

Prevention is better than cure la, this I can see from the email… but a lot of time we need the cure rather than preventing things from happening…
So its more important to be able to patch on n strengthen the relationship than to prevent n if it fails blame others for the failing…

Humans need to learn n to learn is thru experience, if u don’t experience the heartache how could u value ur relationship?
Surely humans would be do folly n fail to temptation la but more importantly is to learn n use these experiences to create a better bonding relationship.

Think about it...

-----Original Message-----
From: Miss XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Sent: Thursday, May 05, 2005 6:13 PM
To: Sixx; NGCL
Subject: Don't lose that 90% you already have

Hey guys, found this article in a forum & seems pretty realistic… As the phrase goes, the grass is always greener on the other side. So no matter which side you are on, the grass on the other side is always greener. Man can never be satisfied. So cherish whatever you have now. No one or rather nothing is perfect.

Don't lose that 90% you already have.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not."

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive.

More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 90 of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 10%.

Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature.

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter. Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh- smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels,
and a red pencil-cut skirt.

Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have. Don't throw away the 90% that you already have! Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other.

The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking
God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.
I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.
Are you like the economy airline

The main message:

If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are is FIRST CLASS!

kook さんの投稿 @ 12:25 午前