Pep talk #1
○ says (10:29 AM):y u felt u lost her haha ..
u sure melt one
● (10:30 AM):
huh?
○ says (10:30 AM):
it's very clear u wanna be with her again
then jus call her lah
● (10:31 AM):
her words make me scared...
○ says (10:31 AM):
why?
i dun understand aiya ..
if she really treasures u alot she'll call u and apologize one
but if u really wanna give her aNother chance then call her lor
y so difficult
wat's so scary abt her words?
suicidal
aiyo .. getting involved in sucidal gals is very dangerous
why u like to live on dangerous grounds is it
● (10:32 AM):
"i dont wana repeat the same mistake of taking you for granted again. too late"...
○ says (10:32 AM):
wat's so scary
● (10:32 AM):
depending on how u see the msg
positive means she repents n knows her faults
negative means no use looking back... lets move on
○ says (10:33 AM):
i see it as positive
anyway, i always look at the positive side of things
:)
● (10:33 AM):
ya i'm trying to see it as positive too lor ^^
○ says (10:33 AM):
but is she really remorseful?
● (10:33 AM):
but i'm scared...
○ says (10:33 AM):
of wat
disappointed again?
● (10:34 AM):
i duno... i told u negative thinking...
○ says (10:34 AM):
i dunno u scared of wat
so i cant help u if u urself oso dunno u scared of wat
how to overcome?
● (10:35 AM):
yes... best pax to overcome it is her...
if she knows of how to appease my fears ><;
○ says (10:36 AM):
wat is ur fear?
how did she hurt u?
y u so scare
and of wat
keNNa hurt again?
hehe .. i tot u used to it and numb liao
kk ..jus kidding
● (11:06 AM):
i scared of her temper n making her angry
n alot of time its like 8 out of 10 words i say irks her
○ says (11:06 AM):
this kind of r/s very difficult to maintain wor
like living in fear
● (11:07 AM):
ya tt's y i'm trying to be more cheerful n not so u know expectant?
fear breeds mistrust, allows evil tots to manifest, causes miscommunications? then make u wana control more, find out more, become unease, become insecure
○ says (11:27 AM):
anyway
u r not entirely wrong
she's not thinking of ur feelings too
when she borrowed or use other guys $
let her knOw u dun feel gd when she does tt
let her knOw she has to think of ur feelings too
if she cant think of ur feelings
cant give and take
and jus wanna take
u see if u can hold on to a give and give r/s for how long
if u can take it gd for u
if not ... it's better Now then laTer
● (11:31 AM):
true... from the note u see she's self reflecting n remorseful bah
hopefully she can change...
○ says (11:33 AM):
then u must b clear to her tt you dun wish to see her spending or hanging out too closely with aNother guy/his $
and she must be honest with u and not do it behind ur back
cos when u find out
it's very difficult to even remain as frens
it takes years to build trust
but 1 sec to blow it
● (11:35 AM):
hai... >< i dont mind her going out w other guys
but i just wan her to respect me n let me know thgs lor...
like go out w who or do wat, so least i no need wry
○ says (11:36 AM):
k .. jus stAte ur 'requirements' clearly to her
tell her upfront let her knOw to prevent further mis understanding
this is a kind of comms to get a r/s going
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